Relationship means what to you? Relation-Ships One or the other?
Relation - Ship
Means what to you?
So it started off great, feeling like a new toy and a new breath of life- or it started off spontaneous, exciting, renewing and adventurous?
I'm sure we all have had that feeling of excitement once we've met someone that sparks our interest in many ways. Sometimes this feeling or thought as it may be usually either leads us to explore or take action towards the feeling. In some cases in exploring we discover relations with each other spiralling our feelings in all directions based on the actions involved eventually creating a recognizable or subliminal bond. In this time of bonding we usually develop a sense of obligation rather both parties or one part both develop a sense of ownership.
In the case of starting the bond with only Relations i.e (Sexual, Business, verbal etc.) usually gives us a upfront sense of who we are dealing with on the other side. When sexual relations are the header of building a bond between two, emotional feelings usually dictate the direction of the relations leaving logic at the smaller end of the stick. When Business relations are the header of the bond there is usually a sense of strong trust and obligation off top- also making the expectations high. Aside from those Verbal relations are usually simple and come as needed. In verbal relations usually both parties understand blatantly what's the core of the bond and live up to that daily. Although there are all sorts of relations as we know, relations stand as the connection point or bond of two. What are your relations today with the people you deal with constantly and even those you don't- Are they healthy?
With the understanding of your relations and bonds between you and another person there is always this one thing at least 80% of us skip and pay no attention to- Which is the Ship or support factor of our relations. Although the bond seems much similar to the ship it can be considered a different portion only detailing what the relations lead up to (Results). The ship in our relations usually have more holes than goals and structure being that most of our ships are built off of loose relations or no understanding of relations between the two. I'm more than sure we all have experienced a relation that may have lasted more than a year of excitement and we all can agree everything comes to an end. With that in mind, agreeing that the relation in action must benefit both parties maintaining happiness in order to build the ship. Your ship being any form of support factor that helps maintain your bond and relations cannot survive alone without healthy relations. Ever had a great idea or interest in a person but never reached out or maybe you have but it goes nowhere? I think we all can agree mainly the cause of those results could well be from lack of healthy relations.
Having being a victim of subliminal sexual relationships i think we all can come to agree that those usual direct us to truth in some of the most destroying ways- which can reconstruct the way most of us view things. There are some healthy sexual relations that grow to be of great benefit to the future of couples but very rare as sex pertains only to just a portion of a relationship in whole.
With these things in mind could you say that you can maintain your relations without a ship or your ship without relations?
What is a Relationship core values to you?
Can you have relations with a ship or vice versa?
Do you think your partners relations to you equal to yours to them?
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